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Soaring Like Eagles
John McCort

Giving power to the faint, and to the incapable He giveth strength in abundance. And youths grow faint and weary, and young men suffer and fall. But they who wait for Jehovah gain fresh strength; they shall lift up their wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." (Isaiah 40:29-31)

Everyone encounters tragedy in their lives at one time or another. The question is not whether we will suffer pain, heartache and death; the real question is how can we triumphantly deal with those tragic times in life.

The prophet Isaiah begins the 40th chapter of his book with a declaration of how to obtain comfort in those moments of pain and madness. "Comfort, comfort, oh Israel." (Isaiah 40:1) The chapter climaxes with the statement that Jehovah gives strength in abundance to those who are incapable. (Isaiah 40:29)

Jehovah, however, limits the comfort and strength only He can give to those who wait on him. The word "wait" is also translated as "hope". The word in Hebrew is quavah which literally means "to look eagerly, a hopeful expectation". It is derived from a Hebrew root word that refers to the stretching of a rope that does not break. It can also be translated as "strong endurance."

We cannot expect to receive comfort from God unless we are willing to endure. Those who suffer faithfully and eagerly look for the Lord to deliver them from their pain. They will be able to lift their wings high like eagles and fly into the spiritual heavens.

The term "wait" is not passive in nature. In the Hebrew, the term does not indicate we are to passively wait for the Lord to do His will. It is in the active voice, which means we are to work while we wait, build our faith, and selflessly labor in His vineyard.

Why Should We Become Like Eagles?

Eagles fly toward storms. Eagles are unique in the kingdom of birds because they do not hide during storms. Falconers (those who study falcons, with eagles being classified as such) report that eagles are the only birds to be found around tornadoes. Those who study the migratory habits of eagles chase strong storms (especially those that contain tornadoes) because there they will find eagles in abundance. They fly towards storms because the updrafts of the storm provide them an opportunity to fly higher than usual. They fly toward the storm, spreading their wings and lifting them high, allowing the powerful updrafts to rocket them into the sky until they are soaring above the storm. These updrafts can reach wind speeds of 150 miles an hour and shoot the eagles up to heights of 60,000 feet. Like eagles, we should not fear the storms of life. We should embrace them as an opportunity to fly high spiritually. If we spread our wings of faith and let storms of life provide the wind beneath our wings, we can turn tragedy into opportunity.

Eagles Soar Above Storms. Paralyzed by fear, all other birds hide under trees and cower in fear until the strong storms are past. But eagles not only fly toward the storms, they soar above them. Once the eagles top the storm, they simply soar above the clouds until the storm has passed. Instead of being on the ground midst the mud and the rain, the eagles gracefully float above the storm, where the view is spectacular. Like those eagles we should not allow life's fears to paralyze our spirits. We can soar above the storms and use their power to our advantage.

Eagles Fly Through The Storms. Kim Newman, falconer at Zoo Atlanta, reports that eagles fly down through violent storms to catch their prey. They not only soar above the storms, they use them as an opportunity to feed their young. Like those eagles, we can use the storms of life as an opportunity; to feed ourselves spiritually and to provide an example to others and feed them spiritually. Why should we be like the sparrows, paralyzed by fear?

Eagles Congregate in Groups During Storms. Eagles fly toward storms in groups. One eagle will fly into the storm to find the strong thermal updrafts. When the lone eagle finds a strong updraft, the other eagles will follow it into the same updraft until they are all above the storm. They soar above the storm, forming what is known as a kettle. They soar in a counterclockwise motion as if they were forming their own tornado. They congregate and cooperate with each other during the storms instead of fighting and bickering. The people of God should mimic the habits of eagles. We should not be argumentative or divisive. We should rise above the storms in unison and soar together.

Eagles Use The Storms To Travel More Quickly. During migration, when eagles need to cover a lot of territory quickly, they will find a strong storm to allow them to travel at high speeds. The thermal updrafts allow them to be propelled into the steering currents of the jet stream. The winds aloft at 30,000 feet are often 130-150 miles per hour. When the eagles get into the jet stream, they lift their wings high (usually at a 30 degree angle), lock them in place, and glide effortlessly using the winds of the storm to propel them forward. However, the only way they can use these powerful winds is to soar high into the heavens.

Eagles Fly Long Distances Without Getting Tired. Recently, an eagle was tagged in Greenland. Thirteen days later, the same eagle was caught and tagged in extreme southern New Jersey. How is it that this eagle was able to fly thousands of miles in a very short period of time? When they find a strong storm moving in the direction they desire, eagles use the strength of the storm to glide effortlessly. Isaiah 40:29-31 states, "But they who wait on Jehovah shall gain fresh strength; they shall lift up their wings like eagles; they shall run, and not grow weary; they go forward and do not faint." It also states, "Giving power to the faint, and to the incapable, He giveth strength in abundance." Soaring into the heavens and riding the storm's winds takes faith and courage. God instructs us not to fear, but to have faith. "We have not been given a spirit of fear, but of strength and courage and a sound mind." (II Timothy 1:7) Strength during storms does not come from ourselves alone, but from allowing God to transform us into spiritual eagles and then following the other eagles of God into the heavens where we can soar.

Eagles That Survive Follow Older, Experienced Eagles. Eagle watchers are always amused by younger inexperienced eagles during migration. The older eagles find they must migrate over land rather than the ocean. Typically, younger male eagles often venture out on their own the first year of migration. They will leave the pack, fly out over the ocean, and find themselves lost with no place to land and rest. They also find there is little food they can catch because the ocean waters are so deep. The fish tend to swim deeper because the water is calmer at deeper depths. One of the greatest causes of death during the first two years of an eagle's existence is its failure to follow the lead of the older, more experienced eagles. Eagle watchers refer to the young male eagles as "the stupid eagles." Once they survive the first three years, younger eagles will follow the older eagles during migration until they memorize landmarks for themselves and establish their own nest with a mate.

How Eagles Avoid Conflict And Tragedy. Even though golden eagles are strong predators, they are a relatively peaceful bird. They avoid conflict by following a number of habits. (1) They are monogamous. They have one mate until their mate dies. They establish one nest high in the mountains. Each year they return to the same nest and mate with the same eagle. Eagles do not kill or maim each other during mating season because they are not competing with each other for dominance. Unlike many animals, male eagles do not fight for the right to mate with all the female eagles. The only time eagles fight is when one eagle accidentally flies too close to the nest of another eagle. (2) Eagles do not generally fight over food. In fact they often hunt in pairs, especially when the prey is large. Smaller but faster male golden eagles will often chase wolves toward the stronger female eagles. When the wolf has tired, the female eagle will swoop down and carry it off. All this strength is packed into a mere 15 pounds!

Eagles Protect Their Own By Nesting High in The Mountains. Eagles do not build their nests on the ground or in normal treetops. They build their nests high in the mountain trees, where other birds and ground-based predators cannot eat their young. In fact, for the most part, eagles live most of their lives above the dangers that lies on the ground. They journey to the valleys and the plains when they want to feed, but they are frequently poisoned when they eat rodents and small animals which have fed on the poisons man has placed on the earth. Bald eagles nearly became extinct because of the poison DDT. It was placed by man to eradicate mice and rats. It was also used as a herbicide to kill weeds. The small birds and rodents that fed on the DDT were eaten by the bald eagles. This caused them to die in large numbers. In contrast, golden eagles only eat live rodents, birds and fish and are not easily poisoned. It is very interesting that environmentalists often use eagles to determine where the environment has been poisoned. Eagles will not live in an environmentally poisoned area.

Eagles Possess Great Eyesight. Eagles possess eyesight that is up to ten times stronger that humans. They have been known to fly at an altitude of 30,000 feet during a strong storm, fly down through the storm and catch a mouse. It is thought that some species of falcons possess infrared capabilities, Experienced falconers report that some falcons hunt exclusively at night. When rodents urinate their urine is warmer than the ground around it. The falcons track the urine streams of the rodents to track them down. The people of God possess much greater spiritual eyesight. The apostle Paul spoke of "having the eyes of your heart enlightened". (Ephesians 1:18)

The Feathers of an Eagle Give it Strength. What makes an eagle unique among birds are its feathers. Its feathers not only protect it from extreme cold, they also provide the ability of the eagle to fly high and long. Once a year the eagle sheds its feathers in a process called molting. The feathers are shed in a very precise pattern. Not all of them are shed at once because the eagle could not fly and would become vulnerable to predators. Geese, on the other hand, shed all of their feathers at once before they grow new feathers. During this time they cannot fly and as a result, are vulnerable to predators who take advantage of their incapacity to fly.

The Feathers of an Eagle Require blood. If you examine the feather of an eagle closely, it has a hollow end. Until 200 years ago, before the invention of the printing press and typewriter, men used eagle feathers as writing quills. They would fill the hollow end with ink and use it as a fountain pen. But before the feather was shed by the eagle it was filled with blood. As long as the feather had an abundant supply of blood it would remain healthy and give the eagle the capacity to fly. When the eagle sheds its feathers, the supply of blood to the feather is cut off.; the feather literally dies and falls off the body of the eagle. Likewise, the people of God must stay in contact with the blood of Christ or they will die spiritually. Their spiritual feathers will fall out and they will not be able to fly above the storms of their lives. They will be overcome by their enemies because they cannot fly.

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"Trust Him when doubts assail thee,
Trust Him when thy strength is small,
Trust Him when to simply trust Him
Seems the hardest thing of all.

Trust Him, He is ever faithful.
Trust Him, His dear will is best.
Trust Him, for thy Father's heart
Is thy surest place for rest.

Trust Him in storm or sunshine,
All thy cares upon Him cast,
'Til this term of life is over,
And thy trusting days are past."

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The Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And wisdom to know the difference.

An 18th Century theologian by the name of Reinhold Neibuhr is considered to be the author of the famous Serenity prayer. It has been quoted, printed and memorized by many people. While it is not inspired Scripture, it does illustrate Bible principles. Unknown to many is the fact this is only part of the prayer. There is more. Here is the remainder of the prayer:

Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as the pathway to
peace.
Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it
is, not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will.
That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with Him forever
in the next.
Amen.


Serenity

“Peace I leave with you;
My peace I give to you;
not as the world gives,
do I give to you.
Let not your heart be troubled,
nor let it be fearful.”
John 14:27

“Therefore I am well
content with weaknesses,
with insults,
with distresses, with
persecutions, with difficulties,
for Christ's sake;
for when I am
weak, then I am strong.”
2 Corinthians 12:10


Courage

“Therefore, being always of good courage, and knowing that while we are at home in
the body we are absent from the
Lord — for we walk by faith, not by sight — we are of good
courage, I say, and prefer rather to be absent from the
body and to be at home with the Lord.”
2 Corinthians 5:6-8


Wisdom

“But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice
have their senses trained to
discern good and evil.”
Hebrews 5:14

“And this I pray, that your love
may abound still more and
more in real knowledge and all
discernment”
Philippians 1:9

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Dealing With Discouragement
by Gene Taylor

Discouragement is universal. No one is exempt from the dark cloud it casts over our lives. Great men of God -- David, Job, Jeremiah, and even Jesus -- became discouraged. Discouragement can take many forms and be caused by many things.

• Family Matters. Possibly a marriage is not working out as the man and woman had hoped and dreamed that it would. Children may cause concern and constant anxiety to parents. There may be illness of loved ones, financial insecurity, etc.

• Moral Failure. In the battle between the flesh and spirit, many times the flesh keeps winning. One may have, among other things, a weakness to alcohol, drugs, sex, dishonesty or laziness. When we lose a battle, we lose heart and often become discouraged.

• Spiritual Matters. For example, there are wives who try to keep the lamp of faith burning in spite of the unbelief of a husband who has no interest in spiritual things. It could be that one becomes stagnant in his spiritual growth and his zeal begins to wane and Christ may not mean as much as He did or as He should, prayer seems to get him nowhere, church attendance seems flat and worship assemblies are boring. Some get discouraged because their convictions for truth cause them to be at odds with relatives or friends. Some may become disappointed in preachers, elders or other influential Christians because of their hypocrisy, carnality or apostasy. Discouragement in spiritual matters may result from a lack of success in the church in converting the world and building up the local body.

As shocking as it may seem, faithfulness to God and His word do not guarantee that one will not become discouraged. As a matter of fact, the more one is involved in the work of the Lord, the greater, at times, his discouragement may be. Those who endeavor to teach God's truth or live faithfully as a Christian encounter many and varied discouragements. What faithful teacher and Christian has not asked himself at one time or another, "What's the use?" when his efforts to teach others and to set a proper example seem not only to accomplish nothing but also to be unappreciated. Discouragement also comes to preachers. The pulpit provides no insulation from it.

We must remember that others before us have had their disappointments and discouragements also. Jeremiah was met with almost unimaginable discouragements (Jer. 9:2). Yet, in spite of all his longings to leave, he stood at his post of duty through the weary years, faithful to God even to the last. Jesus and His apostles faced many discouragements. So must we.

Discouragement, though, is not sin within and of itself. While it may be defined as to deprive of courage or confidence, to hinder by disfavoring, to attempt to dissuade; it may also be defined as deep and sober concern because of real problems. The person who is never discouraged is of no real value. The real issues and grim realities of life are too deep to pretend that nothing is ever bad enough for heartache and tears.

Discouragement will come. We must know how to deal with it.

Discouragements When Teaching Others

We are not able to effectively consider all the discouragements that plague the one who is endeavoring to be spiritual because of space restrictions. But we can look at one aspect of Christianity that often is very discouraging to people. That is the area of teaching others.

Many children of God fail to be involved in personal evangelism and others who are doing it quit because of the discouragements connected with it. Because a work can be discouraging, though, is no reason not to be doing it if God wants it done. Paul, as the apostle to the Gentiles, was often discouraged in his labors but he did not allow it to stop him from doing what he knew to be right. Nothing, including discouragements, moved him from his work of evangelism (Acts 20:24). Neither should anything keep us from our work for the Lord.

It has been said that the person who is forewarned is forearmed. Perhaps if we can anticipate some of the discouragements that typically arise when one attempts to teach others the gospel, we will be able to deal with and overcome them. A few of them follows.

• Dull Minds. The writer of Hebrews was hindered in his efforts to teach some because they were "dull of hearing" (Heb. 5:11-14). While He was upon the earth, people, because of dull minds, failed to comprehend what Jesus said (John 7:33-36; 8:21-27; 8:38-43; Matt. 13:10-16). Even His most dedicated followers sometimes missed the point of His teachings (Matt. 15:10-20; 16:21-23).

• Closed Minds. There are those who neither try to nor want to understand. They want to have things their way. The apostle Paul foretold of this attitude in 2 Timothy 4:3-4. Jesus also encountered this attitude when teaching. Consider those who would take His loaves and fishes but not His teaching (John 6:24-29). They put their personal desires ahead of the truth He taught (John 11:47-50; Matt. 12:22-24). When He would not serve their purpose and teach them what they wanted to hear, they had no time for Him but, rather, closed their eyes and hardened their hearts to the truth (Matt. 15:13).

• Opposition. Any kind of opposition is discouraging but when opposition seems to triumph, real conviction and genuine dedication are needed to stand against it. Jesus faced successful opposition. Many were determined to destroy His influence and defeat His purpose. They resorted to perversions, misrepresentations and lies in an effort to destroy His reputation (Luke 23:1-2; John 19:12). His good works infuriated them so they sought to pervert them in order to turn others against Him. They were wrong but they temporarily got the upper hand (Matt. 27:20-23). But He ultimately triumphed.

• An Antagonistic Environment. We live in a power-mad, pleasure-crazed world. Materialism, secularism, skepticism, pessimism, degeneracy and hypocrisy offer little encouragement for the spread of the gospel. Remember, though, the spiritual condition of the world in which Jesus lived and taught. Both Gentiles (Rom. 1:18-32) and Jews (Rom. 2:1,17-24; 3:9-10; Eph. 2:1-3) were extremely sinful. The people were ignorant and vile, their rulers were bigoted and politically motivated, and the priests were oppressive and unmerciful. Skepticism, traditionalism and hypocrisy prevailed. Yet, amid such undesirable conditions, Jesus launched and continued His work refusing to be deterred in His efforts.

• Waning Interest. We feel elated when interest is growing and enthusiasm is high but what happens when interest lags? Some become despondent and say, "What's the use?" Jesus experienced the disappointment of decreasing interest. Great crowds followed Him at first but when they considered His teaching "too hard" they dropped out and lost interest. At the end of His three year ministry, only a handful remained. He understood that even one soul was worth more than all the wealth in the world (Matthew 16:26).

Dealing With Discouragements

Jesus is our perfect example as we live our lives before God (1 Pet. 2:21), the proper standard for conduct and attitudes. The apostle Paul encouraged the members of the church in Corinth to imitate him as he imitated Christ (1 Cor. 11:1).

While He was on the earth, Jesus had to face discouragements. We must ask, "How did Jesus handle His discouragements?" In learning how He dealt with them, we can learn how we ought to react to those discouragements that come our way. The following are some ways that Jesus dealt with those things that disappointed and discouraged Him.

• He Did Not Give Up. Jesus recognized that the key to any situation was in Him, not in the obstacles He faced. Discouragement, you see, is a condition of mind not one of outside circumstances. Happiness does not depend upon where you are but upon what you are. Keeping in good spirit is not a question of circumstances about us but, rather, a question of what we are within ourselves.

• He Took a Wider View. The higher up you are, the farther you can see. Jesus saw things from the Godward side and that side is not discouraging. He encouraged His disciples to have that same perspective. In John 4:35 He told them to "lift up your eyes." No matter what happens in our lives, all will ultimately turn out well if we are faithful in doing the Lord's will. The promise is made to faithful Christians in Romans 8:28 that "all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

• He Kept Working. When He was blocked in one direction, Jesus patiently looked in another. When nothing was left for Him to do but to die, He went to the cross willingly and confidently. Sometimes in life, things may not turn out as we have planned or as we would like them to and we may feel like giving up. Whenever you feel that way, look to Jesus and follow His example. Keep doing the will of God. Persevere with all your heart.

• He Always Prayed. When faced with a crisis situation, Jesus gained strength through prayer unto His Father (Matt. 14:23; Luke 5:16; 6:12; Matt. 26:36-42). We must be people of prayer (Luke 18:1; 1 Thes. 5:17). In times of despondency, discouragement and disappointment, prayer is the answer.

Conclusion

In the midst of many discouragements, Jesus calmly, serenely and thoughtfully, kept right on proclaiming the great truths of heaven, doing the will of God and living the proper life. So must we. "And let us not be weary in well doing; for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not" (Gal. 6:9).

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TEMPTATIONS OF DISCOURAGEMENT}

Negative Attitude/Pessimism
Despondency
Despair
Self-pity
Misjudgment of others
Lack of prayer
Lack of trust in God


Discouraged?

Cry out to God and tell Him of your pain -- Psalm 69:1-2 says, “Save me, O God, for the waters have come up to my neck. I sink in the deep mire, where there is no standing. I have come into deep waters; where the floods overflow me.”

Give God your anxiety --
1 Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your care upon Him because he cares for you.”

Ask Him for peace –
John 16:33 says, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

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A young man was relating some of his experiences in the Great War. With a company of his comrades he was separated from the main body of troops. Surrounded by the enemy for days, their food ran out and their water was exhausted.

Knowing they were without food and water, the enemy sent a messenger every little while, suggesting that they would be wise to surrender.

One night, with no food and no water and with only one shell left, they held a consultation as to what steps to take next. They decided to pray to God for His help, then to fire their last shell into the night as a signal to their comrades. After the shell had exploded, the only thing to do was to wait. In the morning they heard the hum of a motor overhead. It was a plane from their own headquarters. Flying over the surrounded boys, it dropped packages of food and canteens of water. On one of the packages was a note,

"Don't give up. We are coming."

For some days the planes passed overhead and the bread and water were dropped down, always accompanied with the message, "Hold on." Then there was the roaring of artillery and the march of infantry, and the lost battalion was rescued and taken back to their own lines safely.

We, too, are surrounded by the enemy. When we are in a tight place, he whispers, "Better surrender. Why not give up? It is hopeless to fight on."

But when the devil says, "Surrender," God sends along a message of hope, "Don't give up, I'm coming."


by C. L. Paddock, Signs of the Times, 1937

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If you faint in the day of adversity, 
Your strength is small.
Proverbs 24:10

Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day. For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory, while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls. Hebrews 12:2-3

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A Letter to My Body

by E.M. Cameron (Rogers Reflector)

You and I have been together for a long time in a most intimate and valuable relationship. Now you have grown old. Your hearing and strength are failing. Your resistance to cold is diminishing. You cannot climb and run as you once did. In a word, you are running down. In a short time you will cease to breathe and your heart will stop beating. When you can go no further, I will have to leave you and be free. When we separate, you will be returned to the substance of which you were made, and I shall continue on in that life where you are not needed. A Power greater than you and I started us on this journey together. Now, I recognize that you are aware of the fact that your journey is nearing its end, while my journey has scarcely begun. I know this to be true, for while you are feeble, I have never been more alive. Our separation, therefore, cannot be one of sadness, but will be one of joy. You are weary and want to stop. I am longing to alight from this slowing vehicle and go on without you. Death will mean that your desire to stop is granted, and my longing is satisfied. “Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day… we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal. For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens” (2 Cor. 4:16-5:1).

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Homesick for Heaven
author unknown

Until I learned to trust,
I never learned to pray.
I never learned to fully trust
Till sorrows came my way.

Until I felt my weakness,
His strength I never knew;
Nor dreamed till I was stricken
That He would see me through.

Who deepest drinks of sorrow,
Drinks deepest, too, of grace.
He allows the storm so He Himself
Can be our Hiding Place.

The touch that heals the wounded heart,
Is never felt above.
His angels know His blessedness,
His wayworn saints, His love.

His heart that seeks our highest good
Knows well when things annoy.
We would not long for heaven,
If this earth held only joy.

I shall soon be with Christ in Glory,
And His radiant beauty behold.
I will then know the rest of the story;
The half that has never been told.

I'm getting quite homesick for heaven,
Where Jesus my Savior is gone.
His promise to me He has given;
I'll see God some day on the throne.

And then, in the regions of Glory,
In His wonderful likeness I'll shine.
Oh, how I long to be with Him and like Him:
This wonderful Savior divine!

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HAPPINESS  IS
:
by Dot Holladay

1. “Happy are the people whose God is the Lord!”(Psalm 144:15). The world is full of people who do not know God. “The fool has said in his heart ‘There is no God.’ They are corrupt, and have done abominable iniquity; there is none who does good.” (Psalm 53:1). People spend their lives on things of the world and refuse to believe there is a higher being even though He manifests His power when we look at the wonderful things that surround us. How we view God and honor Him will have a direct effect on our ability to be happy. “Blessed (happy) is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in His ways” (Psalm 128:1).

2. “Happy is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding  (Prov.3:13). James 3:13 tells us that one who is wise and understanding is one whose conduct is good and meek. We must seek this knowledge in God’s word and thus learn happiness.

3. “Happy is he who trusts in the Lord” (Prov.16:20). Happiness comes when we learn to adapt to change in our lives.  My husband traveled a lot with the company for which he worked. Sometimes it meant moving our family to Europe and other places in the States. In the beginning I thought, “I cannot do this!”  I did not want to leave my family and friends; but I made a decision to be happy. So many wives of military men were miserable because they did not develop an attitude toward happiness. They did not want to take advantage of the opportunity to experience the beauty and the history Europe has to offer. Every where we went we made Christian friends, and as I look back I realize what a blessing it was. When changes come, don’t isolate yourself  and get into a state of self-pity. We can always make a difference in the lives of others, just by our attitude toward God and our attitude toward happiness. Yes, there are times when things do not go the way we want them to; but it is then that we need to change our attitude about things that bother us. We must be willing to put God first in our lives and trust that He is able to keep His promises if we keep His commands and do His will.

4. Happy is the patient man. “...but we glory in tribulations also; knowing that tribulation works patience; and patience, experience; and experience, hope; and hope makes not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us” (Rom.5:3-5). Someone wrote about a young woman who visited an aged saint and asked her to pray that she might become more patient. The older woman agreed to pray. The two knelt together and the woman of God began to pray: “Lord, send this young woman tribulation in the morning, and send her tribulation in the afternoon...”The young woman nudged the older, saying, “No, not tribulation, patience!” “But,” said the old saint, “It is tribulation that works patience. If you would know patience, you must have tribulation”

5. “Happy is he that has mercy on the poor” (Prov.14:21). There are so many ways that we can help people in need. This doesn’t always mean giving money, we must be willing to give of ourselves. Some people just need the companionship of another Christian.  Some may need advice or transportation.  Sit down sometime and make a list of things that you can do and it might surprise you how much you can give to others.

6. “Blessed (happy) is he whose way is blameless  (Psalm 32:1). This man is honest, pure, and of good report. If any wrong has been committed he tries to make it right. Do you have a problem saying, “I’m sorry?”  So many times we could save ourselves much unhappiness by saying these two simple words. Husbands and wives could have better marriages if they would say these words to each other. Children need to say these words to their parents. Christians need to say these words to their brethren.

Keeping communication open in our relationships is very important to one’s happiness.  Talk about things that matter in a peaceable way.   Don’t have grudges and shouting matches. Remember, none of us are perfect. In a ladies’ class I once asked them to make a list of the good and bad things about their husbands. It surprised some to find that the good far outweighed the bad. We need to think on the positive things and appreciate our mate. Words can be painful. I have seen couples ridicule each other in front of others. This is damaging and irreparable. “If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one=s religion is useless” (James 1:26).

7. “Blessed (happy) are you even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake(1 Pet.3:14). We are not promised a life with no problems. Life is too short to spend it in self pity. You will only wind up regretting all those things that you could have changed with an attitude of trusting in the Lord and an attitude toward happiness.  Some people say they cannot change their attitude. They blame their parents or some thing for their unhappiness. I grew up in a home with an alcoholic father and it wasn’t a happy situation; but instead of blaming and being upset, I decided when quite young that there was something I could do to make my life better.

The key to happiness is so simple. It comes through having the right attitude toward life. Solomon said, “For as a man thinks in his heart, so is he” (Prov.23:7). The Christian should be the happiest person on earth because he has forgiveness of sins and the Word of God to guide his thinking.

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I Met a Man with Character This Week
Paul R. Blake

I volunteered to help out at the Columbiana County Workshop for the Disabledone day this week. I met over 100 people who had every apparent reason to bemoan their lot, but instead, they have chosen to make good, happy lives within the confines of their mental and physical limitations. Often, the children of this world shame the professed children of God.

I met a man with character this week; let's call him Michael. He and I have some things in common, we are both 35 year old men. But there, the similarity ends.

Michael works in a place where the only jobs to be had are menial, repetitive labor. He does the same thing, hour after hour, day after day, performing tasks that most people would find dull, doing work that many folk would deem unnecessary.

I do not.

Michael has a severe physical disability. He is confined to a wheelchair and must be strapped in an upright position. He cannot walk without the assistance of someone who will walk with him, holding him upright. If he wants to stand alone he must do so in a corner, supported by two walls. His right arm is contracted into the shape of the letter "Z" and completely unusable. Michael must depend on the kindness of others just to move.

I do not.

Michael can only say one word, "Yeahhhh!" He simply says, "yes," to any question asked of him for he cannot hold a conversation with anyone. He has never passed the time of day talking about the weather or his favorite

sports team. He has never been able to say, "I love you," to his mother or, "Thank you," to a caring friend or, "Isn't that a beautiful sunset," to a passing stranger. He endures the frustration of never being able to express himself and be understood by others.

I do not.

Michael works to the uttermost limit of his capacity. When asked to use his shriveled right arm, he glares intently at it as if by sheer force of will he can unbind the contracted muscles. Trembling all over, he struggles with the frozen joints and the twisted arm jerks back and forth, up and down. So Herculean are his efforts that his left arm is extended out in the air with the first clenched in white knuckled defiance of his limitations.

When requested to reach overhead to perform a task, he pressed his head and shoulders back against a sharply curved spine and works with his left arm upraised until he doesn't have the strength to lift it from the table. And all the while, Michael looks warmly into the eyes of his companion and keeps a pleasant smile on his face. As I watched his intense efforts, my eyes clouded with tears and a lump formed in my throat, because Michael strives to the absolute limit of his existence to do what is asked of him.

And I...I...I met a man with character this week...

Solomon: "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might," (Eccl. 9:10). Apostle Paul: "And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward," (Col. 3:23-24).

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Change Me

Dear Lord change not Thy will in my life,
Or trial and sorrows to be;
Renew my faith and make me strong,
Change not Thy will, change me.

Though teardrops fall when trouble comes,
Like storms on a rolling sea;
Let Thy beacon guide my ship to port,
Change not the storm, change me.

When Thy Holy Word I don't understand
And Thy glory I cannot see;
Teach my eyes, give me sight and wisdom,
Change not Thy Word, change me.

If the fruit Thou hast given me to eat,
Taste bitter and sour, I plea;
Let not my will but Thine be done,
Change not the fruit, change me.

If sometime I murmur and grumble, dear Lord,
About the cross I carry for Thee;
Keep it firm on my shoulders, but hold my hand,
Change not the cross, change me.

If You change Thy ways to please me, dear Lord,
I would soon grow cold and turn from Thee;
That You may hear my prayers, dear Lord,
Change not Thy ways, change me.

There's a valley that I must cross,
Someday Thy face to see;
Lest I forget what power is Thine,
Change not the valley, change me.

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Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. Phil. 4:11-12

? What was Paul's secret in being content whether he had plenty or suffered need?

» I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. Phil. 4:13

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The Heavenly Places
David Powlas

QUESTION:  "Several times in the book of Ephesians, Paul used the phrase 'the heavenly places'.  Do those words refer to heaven?  Or, does that phrase have a different meaning?"

ANSWER:  The New Testament book known today as "Ephesians" is a divinely-inspired epistle [letter] from the apostle Paul.  According to Ephesians 1:1, the letter was written to the "saints" [holy ones; saved persons] in Ephesus.  Five times in that epistle (1:3; 1:20; 2:6; 3:10; 6:12), Paul used the phrase "the heavenly places" which describes the spiritual realm – not this physical, material, earthly world.  Since the spiritual realm is invisible to physical eyes, what the Bible reveals is the only reliable source of information about that domain.  Please note what these verses teach about "the heavenly places"...

• Ephesians 1:3-6 – All spiritual [not physical] blessings are in "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  However, these blessings are available only to those persons who are "in Christ" (Romans 6:1-6; Galatians 3:26-28).

• Ephesians 1:19-23 – Jesus Christ occupies the position of power/authority in "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  He is the only "head" of the church "which is His body" (Matthew 28:18; Colossians 1:13-18).

• Ephesians 2:4-7 – Christians are part of a spiritual assembly in "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  One thing which they all have in common is a spiritual resurrection from the dead (Isaiah 59:1-2 & Colossians 2:11-13).

• Ephesians 3:8-12 – The Lord’s church demonstrates the awesome wisdom of God to all of the spirit beings [holy angels; Satan; demons; etc.] in "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  None of them really understood God’s "eternal purpose" until He fully revealed it (1 Peter 1:10-12; 1 Corinthians 2:6-8).

• Ephesians 6:10-18 – All Christians [saved persons] are involved in spiritual warfare against the "wickedness" [Satan and his demons] in "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  God provides spiritual armor to protect them against that "wickedness" (2 Corinthians 10:3-6; 1 John 4:4).

Human beings have physical bodies which God designed for living in a physical world.  Hence, physical eyes cannot literally see "the heavenly places" [the spiritual realm].  Only spiritual "eyes", i.e., the "eyes" of faith, can view that domain – "For we walk by faith, not by sight." (2 Corinthians 5:7)


No matter your trial this coming month, remember as you walk in "heavenly places" that your spirit soars above this earth and its disappointments. Lift your spirit to your King and Prince of Peace and find all your spiritual blessings there.

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A hug can break down barriers that sometimes words cannot do. At times, it can speak more than any words can say. We bond with a hug. We find comfort with a hug. We greet and separate from each other with a hug. We establish human contact and interaction with a hug. The beauty of a hug is in its simplicity. The gesture towards another human being, known or unknown, is easy. It costs nothing but a simple act of caring and kindness.  -selected

"A silent hug means a thousand words to an unhappy heart."

"Hugging closes the door to hate."

There’s something in a simple hug
That always warms the heart;
That welcomes us back home
And makes it easier to part.

A hug is a way to share the joy
And sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say
They like you ‘cause you’re you’.

Hugs are meant for anyone
For whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbour,
Or a cuddly teddy bear.

A hug is an amazing thing –
It’s just the perfect way
To show the love we’re feeling
But can’t find the words to say.

It’s funny how a little hug
Makes everyone feel good;
In every place and language,
It’s always understood.

And hugs don’t need equipment
Special batteries or parts –
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts.

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Greet one another with a kiss of love.
Peace to you all who are in Christ Jesus. Amen.
1 Peter 5:14

Greet your brothers and sisters in Christ
"with a holy kiss" or a h
ug.

When?
♥ when you're proud of someone.
♥ when you feel someone's pain.
♥ when you don't know what to say but want to comfort.
♥ when you are happy for someone.
♥ when you have to admonish.
♥ when you want to encourage.
♥ when you are hugged.
♥ when you are just happy and thankful to see them.
♥ when you know they are in need of affection.
♥ when you say hello or say goodbye.


Why?
♥ It is an expression of unity in Christ.
♥ It is an expression of love in Christ.
♥ It is a language of care and concern.
♥ It is an expression of joy.
♥ It is comfort.
♥ It is peace.
♥ It is understanding.
♥ It makes others feel welcomed and love.
♥ It is commanded!

...A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing... Eccl. 3:5

And they began to weep aloud and embraced Paul, and repeatedly kissed him. Acts 20:37

After the uproar had ceased, Paul called the disciples to himself, embraced them, and departed to go to Macedonia. Acts 20:1

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I'd like to submit a poem in memory of my mother, Clara Choate who died at 90 years old in February, 2008. She and our dad were happily married for more than 60 years and together that had us 7 children. They were Christian parents and all the children also became Christians at an early age. Mother developed dementia during the last few years of her life. It was so sad and very hurtful when she could no longer call us by our names. I wrote this poem in her memory. -Alma

Memories

Each day brings another memory
To place within your heart and mind
Was it evil or unpleasant
Or something good or kind?

Many times we're in control
Of the memories that we've made
By the things we see, say or do
Hoping someday they'll never fade.

Memories can bring us comfort
Or they can sometimes make us sad
But even when we've grown old
Precious happy memories can make us glad.

Not knowing when your memories may grow dim
Ravish them each day with joy
As you replay them in your mind
Allowing them to become your new found toy.

Alma Norman
copyright 2008


"Memories of our lives, of our works and our deeds
will continue in others."

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The Garden City
by Jon W. Quinn

      It is the future. Mankind has been raised from the dead. The living have been changed and now, with those who have been raised, possess immortal, eternal spiritual bodies. The final judgment has been concluded, and now you approach your final, eternal home for the first time.

      In the present time, we read the Scripture for glimpses of what that home shall be. We realize that the things described in the pages of God's word are often symbolic and figurative. We understand that there are things too marvelous and wonderful for us to grasp presently. As we, in our imaginations, attempt to picture heaven, we know we fall far short of the beauty and wonder of the real thing.

      But, back to the future, not everyone is entering the gates of the heavenly city with you. At judgment, mercy and peace were available only for those who had sought for it in their lives by obedient faith. Those who had walked in other ways than God's way had ended up at another destination than the one God's way leads to. Some had denied there would be a severe side to judgment at all. There would be no grace for those who had refused it on earth. (Hebrews 10:31; 2 Peter 3:9; Matthew 23:37,38; 2 Thessalonians 1:9).

The Eternal Garden City

      “And I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth passed away, and there is no longer any sea. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He shall dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself shall be among them, and He shall wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there shall no longer be any death; there shall no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away.  And He who sits on the throne said, "Behold, I am making all things new." And He said, "Write, for these words are faithful and true." And He said to me, "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give to the one who thirsts from the spring of the water of life without cost. "He who overcomes shall inherit these things, and I will be his God and he will be My son.”... And he carried me away in the Spirit to a great and high mountain, and showed me the holy city, Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, having the glory of God. Her brilliance was like a very costly stone, as a stone of crystal-clear jasper... And I saw no temple in it, for the Lord God, the Almighty, and the Lamb, are its temple...  And the city has no need of the sun or of the moon to shine upon it, for the glory of God has illumined it, and its lamp is the Lamb. And he showed me a river of the water of life, clear as crystal, coming from the throne of God and of the Lamb, in the middle of its street. And on either side of the river was the tree of life, bearing twelve kinds of fruit, yielding its fruit every month; and the leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations.  And there shall no longer be any curse; and the throne of God and of the Lamb shall be in it, and His bond-servants shall serve Him;  and they shall see His face, and His name shall be on their foreheads. And there shall no longer be any night; and they shall not have need of the light of a lamp nor the light of the sun, because the Lord God shall illumine them; and they shall reign forever and ever.”  (Revelation 21:1-8; 10-11; 22,23; 22:1-5).

The First Step Inside Heaven

      You took your first step into your everlasting hometown and you  were filled with an awe that would never cease. You knew at that moment that you were where you really belonged. The world had not been your home, but this was! It was just right in every respect. It was obvious that you would never tire of this place and that nothing would ever spoil it or diminish from its beauty and wonder. You realize now that you had never really been “home” until this moment! (Hebrews 11:8-10; 13-16).

      Even now, those years you had spent on the earth seemed very fleeting. All those days and experiences now seem as a wisp of vapor that has vanished away (James 4:14). Though you knew it to be so before, you see even more clearly what a waste it would have been to give up all of this for brief pleasures and riches earthly life could have afforded you had you not been as diligent to do the Father's will.

The First Desire Inside Heaven

      Your new body has many new capacities. In the old body, to see God would have been fatal. But now, that is no longer true (Exodus 33:13; 18-23). Jesus had said, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8). Now you can approach God's throne and see first hand the source of all you are. He is your origin. Your spirit is His offspring. So, you join with the multitudes (Revelation 7:9-17) around the throne of God and see Him in His eternal form and join in praise with complete peace and confidence, sharing with others joys to the extent you have never known before. And though you are a part of a vast multitude, you are with the Father on an intimate level, for His “eyes are in every place”  (Proverbs 15:3; Psalm 17:14,15).

Other Aspects of the Paradise City

      The size of the city was great (Revelation 21:6). The word “paradise” means “park” or “garden” and refers to the restoration of Eden-like qualities (Revelation 2:7; 22:2). There is the “River of Life” flowing through it, and the “tree of life” growing everywhere.

      There was also your special place. Jesus had promised you a dwelling place, or “mansion” (KJV). The word simply means “abiding places” (John 14:1-3). Its a place prepared just for you. It needs no lock and key. It has no light fixtures for obvious reasons. Light is everywhere.

      Your neighbors are righteous people made perfect just like you are (Hebrews 12:23). Old things such as envy and hate are gone. Nothing like that in this city. The old things have passed away. New things have come. Welcome home!

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QUESTION:  "I've noticed that the Bible mentions 'the Book of Life'.  Is it a literal or figurative book?  Is it important for people today?"

ANSWER:  To answer your questions concerning "the Book of Life", I'll ask and note the Bible answers to five important questions about that unique volume.  The answers will be the same whether "the Book of Life" is a literal book [scroll] or a figurative record...

WHAT IS IT?
It's a list of the names of all righteous human beings – all persons who "fear", "serve", and are "workers" for God (Malachi 3:16-18; Philippians 4:2-3).

WHERE IS IT KEPT?
The list is not stored in any earthly archives, library, museum, or vault; instead, it is kept "in heaven" (Luke 10:17-20; Hebrews 12:22-24).

HOW DO I GET MY NAME IN IT?
My name is written in it if I am righteous – if I am either a flawless lawkeeper or a forgiven sinner (Acts 10:34-35; Romans 4:1-8).

CAN MY NAME BE REMOVED FROM IT?
God can and will "blot out" [erase or wipe away] my name if I become unfaithful (Exodus 32:30-33; Revelation 3:1-6).

WHAT WILL BE ITS FUTURE ROLE?
It will perform an essential function when the final judgement of all human beings takes place (Revelation 20:11-15; 21:10,27).

Who will spend eternity in heaven?  Every person whose name was written in and not later erased from "the Book of Life".  Who will spend eternity in hell?  Every person whose name was never recorded in or was blotted out of "the Book of Life".  Is your name written in it?

But thou hast a few names in Sardis that did not defile their garments:
and they shall walk with me in white; for they are worthy. 
He that overcometh shall